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The Energy of Compassion vs. Pity

authentic awareness communication empath energy relationship self love Feb 22, 2023
The Energy of Compassion vs. Pity

The Energy of Compassion vs. Pity

Compassion and pity are two very different energies that can be used to express love and understanding towards others. Compassion is a feeling of deep understanding and empathy that comes from having an open heart and a willingness to connect with someone on a deeper level. The sense of pity, on the other hand, is when you are sorry for someone's misfortune or feel sorrowful sympathy for them. While both can be well-meaning, they come from two very different places and evoke two very different energetic responses in people. In this blog post, we will explore the difference between the energy of compassion vs. the energy of pity.

 

What is the difference between compassion and pity?

Compassion and pity are often confused with one another, but there is a very distinct difference in the energy behind each emotion. Compassion is an emotion that is based on understanding and empathy. It is a feeling of wanting to help and support someone else without judgement or expectation. Compassion can be expressed through words and actions, as it is an act of kindness and support.

On the other hand, the energy of pity is rooted in a feeling of superiority and condescension. It implies that the one expressing the pity feels that they are in a better position than the person receiving it, which leads to a sense of guilt or shame for the receiver. Pity can come across as patronizing, and can make the recipient feel small and unworthy.

Overall, the energy of compassion is far more empowering and uplifting than that of pity. Compassionate individuals or Empaths strive to connect with others in a meaningful way and offer support in an unconditional and non-judgmental manner. Those who choose to express their feelings with pity are often unaware of how their behavior impacts those around them, leading to feelings of inadequacy or even resentment in some cases.

 

How can you tell the difference?

The energy of compassion is often described as feeling of kindness, warmth, and understanding. Compassion is an expression of caring, not merely sympathy or understanding. It is an empathetic response that allows us to open our hearts and show genuine concern for another person’s experience. The energy of compassion encourages us to reach out and help in whatever way we can, either through action or simply listening. When someone feels that they are being supported and understood, they are more likely to be open and vulnerable with their thoughts and feelings. The energy of compassion encourages us to create a safe space for another person to open up and trust us with their story. It also encourages us to listen without judgment and respond with empathy and understanding, which can make all the difference in how someone perceives us and the support we are offering them.

In contrast, the energy of pity is more of a feeling of superiority or self-righteousness. Pity implies that someone needs saving and that you are the one who can do it. It often comes with a judgmental undertone, which is why it can be so off-putting. Pity does not express any real understanding or empathy for another person’s situation. Instead, it conveys a sense of being sorry for them and not wanting to get too involved. When someone feels that they are being pitied, it can create a sense of shame or embarrassment. The energy of pity will put up walls that make it difficult for the person to open up and share their true feelings. Instead, they may close off and become defensive or resistant to hearing advice. The person may also doubt their own abilities and self-worth, as they feel that they need to be saved or that they cannot do it on their own.

 

What are the benefits of having compassion for self and others?

The energy of compassion is a powerful force that can have positive effects on both the giver and receiver. Compassion allows us to understand that everyone is struggling in some way, even if we can’t see it. It teaches us to be understanding and forgiving towards ourselves and others, leading to stronger relationships. The energy of compassion has numerous benefits when directed towards both self and others. Compassion increases self-awareness, acceptance, and self-love, allowing us to understand and forgive ourselves when we make mistakes. By understanding our own struggles, we become more equipped to show compassion to others. Compassion also creates a sense of mutual understanding, respect, and connection between people. Showing compassion towards others acknowledges their struggles, allowing them to feel heard, accepted, and supported.

 

How can you cultivate more compassion in your life?

Cultivating more compassion in your life begins with a deeper awareness and an understanding of the difference between the energy of compassion versus the energy of pity.

Compassion can be seen as an intentional practice of understanding and loving yourself and others, while recognizing their humanness and our shared struggles. It’s also an active choice to acknowledge and extend kindness towards others without judging them. Compassion doesn’t require us to agree or condone another’s behavior, but it does allow us to offer empathy, even if we don’t understand why someone has chosen a particular path.

There are several ways you can cultivate more compassion in your life. First, start by being kinder and more patient with yourself. Self-compassion helps us to give ourselves permission to be imperfect, and reminds us that everyone makes mistakes. You can also practice mindful self-care such as journaling, meditating, or engaging in activities that bring you joy. Additionally, try to reach out to your friends and family when they are struggling. Being vulnerable with someone you trust can help build deeper relationships and promote mutual understanding.

You can also practice compassion towards strangers by being more patient, become willing to understand others, volunteering at a shelter, or donating to a charity. Taking part in activities that give back to your community will help you stay connected and increase your sense of purpose. Finally, do not forget to practice gratitude every day. Appreciating the beauty of the world and people around you can foster a spirit of love and compassion towards yourself and others.

By learning how to recognize the energy of compassion vs. the energy of pity, you can ensure that you are responding with genuine care and understanding rather than judgment or condescension. This will allow you to build better relationships with those around you and cultivate a more compassionate approach to life.

 

 

Amber Price is a Clarity Coach, Psychic Medium, Spiritual Educator, Speaker, and Conscious Entrepreneur.

Amber's mission is to help women live with clarity and reclaim their personal power by developing their intuition and aligning to their authentic purpose unapologetically!

For over a decade, through 1:1 and group sessions, coaching programs, courses, her signature online course and community 'Clarity Academy', The Psychic Associates, and her own personal spiritual experiences, she has guided thousands of people to a life of clarity, so they can be their true self while in relationships, families, or careers.

 

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